Meaning015

Reciprocity

Give something first and people feel obliged to give something back.

What it is

A favour received creates a quiet debt. People repay it with attention, information, a purchase or a referral, often out of proportion to what they got. The gift has to feel genuine and unconditional; a gift with strings is a transaction, and transactions do not create obligation.

The research

Participants who were brought an unrequested soft drink by a confederate later bought twice as many raffle tickets from him as those who received nothing.

Regan, 1971

How to use it

Give the useful thing away

A free audit, calculator or template that solves a real problem earns the reply that a cold pitch never gets.

Deliver value before the form

Show the result first, then ask for the email to save or send it.

Personalise the gift

A note or a tailored recommendation reads as a favour. A generic download reads as marketing.

Related

Sources that shaped this entry: Digital Psychology, growth.design.

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